(In Jana T\u00f3thov\u00e1, \u00davod do transgenera\u010dn\u00ed psychologie rodiny, Praha, Port\u00e1l, 2011)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Najv\u00fdhodnej\u0161\u00edm sa zd\u00e1 by\u0165 polo\u0161trukturovan\u00fd rozhovor, ktor\u00fd pracuje s flexibiln\u00fdm sch\u00e9matom t\u00e9maticky zameran\u00fdch okruhov ot\u00e1zok. Ka\u017ed\u00fd narat\u00edvny rozhovor, ktor\u00e9ho cie\u013eom je otvori\u0165 pr\u00edbeh trannsgenera\u010dn\u00e9ho prenesu rodinn\u00e9ho traumatu, by mal zahr\u0148ovat nasleduj\u00face dva t\u00e9matick\u00e9 okruhy:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prv\u00fd okruh ot\u00e1zok<\/strong> by sa mal zameriava\u0165 na p\u00f4vodn\u00fa rodinu obidvoch rodi\u010dov, tzn. na pr\u00edtomnos\u0165 traumatizuj\u00faceho rodinn\u00e9ho prostredia a n\u00e1sledn\u00e9 mapovanie jednotliv\u00fdch aspektov traumatizuj\u00facej etiologickej kon\u0161tel\u00e1cie detstva jedn\u00e9ho \u010di obidvoch rodi\u010dov.<\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ak by ste sa na chv\u00ed\u013eu vr\u00e1tili do prostredia svojej p\u00f4vodnej rodiny, dok\u00e1\u017eete v \u0148om zachyti\u0165 okamih, v ktorom c\u00edtite, \u017ee sa za\u010d\u00edna V\u00e1\u0161 osobn\u00fd pr\u00edbeh? M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee tento moment je dnes zdrojom sk\u00f4r Va\u0161ej sily alebo slabosti?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Dozvedeli ste sa niekedy, ak\u00e9 okolnosti \u010di emo\u010dn\u00e1 atmosf\u00e9ra sprev\u00e1dzali vo va\u0161ej rodine moment v\u00e1\u0161ho narodenia? Zachytili ste podobn\u00fa atmosf\u00e9ru v d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fdch obdobiach i v s\u00fa\u010dasnej rodine?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Viete o nejak\u00fdch k\u013e\u00fa\u010dov\u00fdch udalostiach svojho rann\u00e9ho detstva, o ktor\u00fdch sa domnievate \u017ee ovlivnili niektor\u00e9 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 rozhodnutia vo va\u0161om \u017eivote? M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee ur\u010duj\u00fa sp\u00f4sob, ak\u00fdm dnes vn\u00edmate svoje vz\u0165ahy? \u017div\u00ed emo\u010dn\u00e9 vzorce, ktor\u00fdmi by ste definovali sami seba alebo alebo ktor\u00fdmi by v\u00e1s definovalo va\u0161e okolie? Vyskytli sa tak\u00e9 udalosti v neskor\u0161\u00edch obdobiach vo va\u0161ej p\u00f4vodnej rodine?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Niekedy doch\u00e1dza v rodine k s\u00fahre zlo\u017eit\u00fdch dynamick\u00fdch vzorcov ved\u00facich ku vz\u00e1jomn\u00e9mu zra\u0148ovaniu rodinn\u00fdch \u010dlenov a k mimoriadne bolestiv\u00fdm situ\u00e1ci\u00e1m. Bola s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou v\u00e1\u0161ho detstva tak\u00e1 \u017eivotn\u00e1 sk\u00fasenos\u0165?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Mali ste niekedy pocit, \u017ee by tomuto z\u00e1\u017eitku bolo mo\u017eno porozumie\u0165? \u010co by ste potrebovali, aby sa pre v\u00e1s tento z\u00e1\u017eitok mohol st\u00e1\u0165 zdrojom sily?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ovlivnila t\u00e1to sk\u00fasenos\u0165 formovanie va\u0161ej s\u00fa\u010dasnej rodiny? V akom zmysle?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Odohrali sa v nej niekedy podobne \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 situ\u00e1cie ako vo va\u0161om detstve alebo v detstve v\u00e1\u0161ho partnera? Odohrali sa v nej niekedy podobne \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 situ\u00e1cie, o ktor\u00fdch sa domnievate, \u017ee by s va\u0161ou sk\u00fasenos\u0165ou z detstva mohli s\u00favisie\u0165?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Druh\u00fd okruh ot\u00e1zok<\/strong> by sa mal zameriava\u0165 na s\u00fa\u010dasn\u00fa vlastn\u00fa rodinu rodi\u010dov a na h\u013eadanie zdrojov rodinn\u00fdch s\u00edl a zranite\u013enost\u00ed v transgenera\u010dnom kontexte, ktor\u00e9 by sa mohli poddie\u013ea\u0165 na prenose neuzdraven\u00fdch zranite\u013enost\u00ed z p\u00f4vodn\u00fdch rodin, ale i na ich mo\u017enom uzdraven\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mapovanie transgenera\u010dn\u00fdch zdrojov s\u00edl v optim\u00e1lne funguj\u00facich rodin\u00e1ch so sk\u00fasenos\u0165ou traumatizuj\u00facich udalost\u00ed v p\u00f4vodn\u00fdch rodin\u00e1ch rodi\u010dov:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – <\/strong>Existuje mnoho rodinn\u00fdch pr\u00edbehov, v ktor\u00fdch s\u00fa pren\u00e1\u0161an\u00e9 bolestiv\u00e9 vzorce fungovania z p\u00f4vodn\u00fdch rod\u00edn rodi\u010dov, opakovanie neuzdravenej traumy \u010di o\u017eivovanie nevyrie\u0161en\u00fdchprobl\u00e9mov. Ke\u010f sa dnes obzriete a pripomeniete si bolestiv\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky vlastn\u00e9ho detstva o ak\u00fdch zdrojoch s\u00edl a sp\u00f4soboch zvl\u00e1dania sa domnievate, \u017ee v\u00e1m pomohli vytvori\u0165 rodinu, v ktorej nie s\u00fa opakovan\u00e9 \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 sk\u00fasenosti rodinnej minulosti?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ako dnes ch\u00e1pete zmysel \u010di v\u00fdznam t\u00fdchto \u0165a\u017ek\u00fdch sk\u00fasenost\u00ed?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ak\u00e9 zdroje s\u00edl v\u00e1m v rodine pom\u00e1haj\u00fa udr\u017ea\u0165 pozit\u00edvnu perspekt\u00edvu do bud\u00facnosti, n\u00e1dej na udr\u017eanie zdrav\u00e9ho fungovania a spokojnosti \u010dlenov rodiny?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Ak\u00fa rolu hr\u00e1 v t\u00fdchto zdrojoch s\u00edl duchovn\u00e1 dimenzia rodinn\u00e9ho \u017eivota, to znamen\u00e1 n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e1 trad\u00edcia \u010di ak\u00e1ko\u013evek vn\u00fatorn\u00e1 viera niektor\u00fdch \u010dlenov?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Existuje vo va\u0161ej rodine dimenzia presahovania ka\u017edodennosti? To znamen\u00e1 snaha o vytv\u00e1ranie spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho \u010dasu a priestoru pre hru, oddych, aktivity \u010di v\u00fdlety, ktor\u00e9 by v\u00e1m pom\u00e1hali zastavi\u0165 sa v ka\u017edodennosti a uvedomi\u0165 si kvalitu rodinnej vz\u00e1jomnosti?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee va\u0161a rodina \u010derp\u00e1 niektor\u00e9 v\u00fdznamn\u00e9 zdroje zo svojho soci\u00e1lneho okolia? Maj\u00fa tieto zdroje tak\u00fa kvalitu, kvantitu a dostupnos\u0165, ako by ste si priali?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Existuj\u00fa vo va\u0161ej rodine zdroje s\u00edl, o ktor\u00fdch viete, \u017ee poch\u00e1dzaj\u00fa z predch\u00e1dzaj\u00facich gener\u00e1ci\u00ed? \u010co v\u00e1m vo va\u0161ej rodine pom\u00e1ha udr\u017eova\u0165 tieto trad\u00edcie predkov, zachov\u00e1va\u0165 vedomie p\u00f4vodu a rodinnej kontinuity?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – M\u00e1 va\u0161a rodina ritu\u00e1ly, ktor\u00e9 pova\u017eujete za neoddelite\u013en\u00fa s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 rodinn\u00e9ho \u017eivota? S\u00fa tieto ritu\u00e1ly s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou \u0161ir\u0161\u00edch trad\u00edci\u00ed predch\u00e1dzaj\u00facich gener\u00e1ci\u00ed, alebo s\u00fa jedine\u010dn\u00e9 a vytvoren\u00e9 v r\u00e1mci va\u0161ej s\u00fa\u010dasnej rodiny?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Mapovanie transgenera\u010dn\u00fdch zdrojov zranite\u013enosti u rod\u00edn s pretrv\u00e1vaj\u00facim traumatick\u00fdm cyklom p\u00f4vodn\u00fdch rod\u00edn rodi\u010dov:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n – M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee gener\u00e1cie predkov s\u00fa dnes vo va\u0161ej rodine viacej zdrojom sily a porozumenia rodinn\u00fdm kore\u0148om, alebo viacej zdrojom nevyrie\u0161en\u00fdch probl\u00e9mov a bolest\u00ed?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee by s\u00fa\u010dasn\u00e9 probl\u00e9my mohli s\u00favisie\u0165 s neuzdraven\u00fdmi bolestiv\u00fdmi sk\u00fasenos\u0165ami vo va\u0161ej p\u00f4vodnej rodine? Ako ch\u00e1pete v\u00fdznam tak\u00e9hoto opakovania?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Viete o niektor\u00fdch zdrojoch s\u00edl, ktor\u00e9 vo va\u0161ej rodine ch\u00fdbaj\u00fa, a ich nepr\u00edtomnos\u0165 viedla k opakovaniu star\u00fdch bolestiv\u00fdch sk\u00fasenost\u00ed? Viete, pre\u010do tieto zdoje s\u00edl neboli pr\u00edtomn\u00e9?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Pokia\u013e si dnes spomeniete na svoju naj\u0165a\u017e\u0161iu sk\u00fasenos\u0165 z p\u00f4vodnej rodiny, c\u00edtite sk\u00f4r hnev, sm\u00fatok, alebo vinu? Zostali pre v\u00e1s niektor\u00e9 z t\u00fdchto em\u00f3ci\u00ed neuzavret\u00e9?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Mali ste strach, aby sa niektor\u00e9 situ\u00e1cie z v\u00e1\u0161ho detstva neopakovali vo va\u0161ej s\u00fa\u010dasnej rodine? Sna\u017eili ste sa tomuto opakovaniu zabr\u00e1nit?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – V akom obdob\u00ed a za ak\u00fdch rodinn\u00fdch okolnost\u00ed do\u0161lo vo va\u0161ej rodine o objaveniu probl\u00e9mov, o ktor\u00fdch sa domnievate, \u017ee by mohli s\u00favisie\u0165 s va\u0161ou p\u00f4vodnou rodinou?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Rodinn\u00e9 v\u00fdro\u010dia b\u00fdvaj\u00fa d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fdmi momentmi, kedy sa m\u00f4\u017eu vyn\u00e1ra\u0165 r\u00f4zne nevyrie\u0161en\u00e9 probl\u00e9my z minulosti, ktor\u00e9 nemusia by\u0165 na prv\u00fd poh\u013ead zrozumite\u013en\u00e9. Existuj\u00fa vo va\u0161ej rodine probl\u00e9my, ktor\u00e9 sa objavili v dobe niektor\u00fdch v\u00fdro\u010d\u00ed?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Existovali vo va\u0161ej rodine t\u00e9my, o ktor\u00fdch sa nesmelo za ur\u010dit\u00fdch okolnost\u00ed diskutova\u0165 a ktor\u00e9 mali charakter tzv. Tabu? Ak\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom bolo dan\u00e9 Tabu udr\u017eovan\u00e9 a ochra\u0148ovan\u00e9?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – M\u00e1te pocit, \u017ee s\u00fa niektor\u00e9 t\u00e9my vo va\u0161ej s\u00fa\u010dasnej rodine chr\u00e1nen\u00e9 podobn\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom ako vo va\u0161ej p\u00f4vodnej rodine \u010di v p\u00f4vodnej rodine v\u00e1\u0161ho man\u017eela\/man\u017eelky?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – \u010co sa v rodine deje, ak sa niekto pok\u00fasi vst\u00fapi\u0165 na toto zak\u00e1zan\u00e9 \u00fazemie? Existuj\u00fa v rodine ur\u010dit\u00e9 sankcie za poru\u0161enie rodinn\u00e9ho tajomstva \u010di Tabu?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Spom\u00ednate si na niektor\u00fdch rodinn\u00fdch predkov, ktor\u00ed n\u00e1hle tragicky zomreli, boli odsudzovan\u00ed, vyl\u00fa\u010den\u00ed, alebo naopak nikdy neprijat\u00ed?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n – Spom\u00ednate si na niektor\u00e9 rodinn\u00e9 sklamania v\u00e1\u0161ho rodi\u010da? Pok\u00fa\u0161ali ste sa ako die\u0165a svojmu rodi\u010dovi pom\u00f4c\u0165 zbavi\u0165 sa t\u00fdchto sklaman\u00ed alebo mu ich nejak\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom vynahradi\u0165?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Preklad z \u010de\u0161tiny<\/strong> (P. Be\u0148o)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" (In Jana T\u00f3thov\u00e1, \u00davod do transgenera\u010dn\u00ed psychologie rodiny, Praha, Port\u00e1l, 2011) Najv\u00fdhodnej\u0161\u00edm sa zd\u00e1 by\u0165 polo\u0161trukturovan\u00fd rozhovor, ktor\u00fd pracuje s flexibiln\u00fdm sch\u00e9matom t\u00e9maticky zameran\u00fdch okruhov ot\u00e1zok. Ka\u017ed\u00fd narat\u00edvny rozhovor, ktor\u00e9ho cie\u013eom je otvori\u0165 pr\u00edbeh trannsgenera\u010dn\u00e9ho prenesu rodinn\u00e9ho traumatu, by mal zahr\u0148ovat nasleduj\u00face dva t\u00e9matick\u00e9 okruhy: Prv\u00fd okruh ot\u00e1zok by sa mal zameriava\u0165 na p\u00f4vodn\u00fa rodinu … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-565","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/565","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=565"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/565\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":568,"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/565\/revisions\/568"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=565"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}