{"id":80,"date":"2024-01-14T20:30:56","date_gmt":"2024-01-14T20:30:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/?page_id=80"},"modified":"2024-01-14T22:33:18","modified_gmt":"2024-01-14T22:33:18","slug":"este-par-slov-k-teme-kronika-historia-nasej-rodiny-traumy-konflikty-temne-postavy-a-tzv-tiene","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/?page_id=80","title":{"rendered":"E\u0161te p\u00e1r slov k t\u00e9me: Kronika (hist\u00f3ria) na\u0161ej rodiny – traumy, konflikty, temn\u00e9 postavy a tzv. „tiene“…"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Ako sa hovor\u00ed: „V ka\u017edej rodine je nie\u010do!<\/strong><\/em>“ (Rozumej nejak\u00e1 nemil\u00e1 udalos\u0165, spor, z\u00e1va\u017en\u00e1 choroba – skr\u00e1tka nejak\u00fd probl\u00e9m…) O tom niet poch\u00fdb. A to by mohla by\u0165 aj jedna z pr\u00ed\u010din, pre\u010do sa \u013eudia t\u00e9me „moje korene“ nechc\u00fa venova\u0165 vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ej miere aj pred o\u010dami in\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, to zn. verejne. Hlavne v mladom veku… Tento postoj sa s pribud\u00e1j\u00facimi rokmi \u017eivota men\u00ed a z\u00e1ujem o rodinu a jej p\u00f4vod (kroniku, hist\u00f3riu, korene, atp.) velmi \u010dasto rastie! Ale je tu e\u0161te jedna vec na ktor\u00fa chcem upozorni\u0165 a tou s\u00fa tzv. „tiene<\/em><\/strong>„-osobn\u00e9 \u010di rodinn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Term\u00edn „Schatten<\/em><\/strong>“ (shadow, tie\u0148<\/em><\/strong>) za\u010dal v kontexte svojich „archetypov“ pou\u017e\u00edval Carl Gustav Jung<\/a>, \u0161vaj\u010diarsky psychoanalytik a filozof. V podstate pritom ide o to, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlovek<\/em><\/strong> nechce resp. iba ner\u00e1d hovor\u00ed o t\u00fdch (svojich) vlastnostiach (a danostiach?), ktor\u00e9 nezodpovedaj\u00fa v\u0161eobecn\u00fdm o\u010dak\u00e1vaniam alebo ide\u00e1lom. A z h\u013eadiska psychologick\u00fdch obrann\u00fdch mechanizmov \u010dloveka<\/em><\/strong> by rozhovor o rodine v takejto situ\u00e1cii<\/em> – a dokonca pred kamerou!<\/em> – mohol by\u0165 pre ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed skuto\u010dn\u00fdm probl\u00e9mom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ale na druhej strane je tu ist\u00fd ameri\u010dan, ktor\u00fd sa volal Robert Hoffman a jeho (quadrinity) proces<\/a> ! A ten v podstate tvrd\u00ed to, \u017ee by sa o tak\u00fdchto tie\u0148och <\/em><\/strong> (negat\u00edvnych z\u00e1\u017eitkoch a sk\u00fasenostiach) v rodine<\/em><\/strong> a v<\/em> detstve <\/em><\/strong>hovori\u0165 malo, ak si chceme zachova\u0165 zdravie a dobr\u00e9 soci\u00e1lne vz\u0165ahy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ako \u00fa\u010dastn\u00edk tak\u00e9ho „procesu<\/em>“ v roku 2005 chcem potvrdi\u0165 pozit\u00edvny dopad sk\u00fasenosti t\u00fdch dn\u00ed na cel\u00fd m\u00f4j \u010fal\u0161\u00ed \u017eivot. Nepova\u017eujem sa s\u00edce za experta v oblasti QP, ale ako psychol\u00f3g s dlhoro\u010dnou poradenskou praxou dok\u00e1\u017eem mnoho udalost\u00ed a s\u00favislost\u00ed rodinnej hist\u00f3rie – ako aj ich dopad na \u017eivota a zdravie jednotlivca – pochopi\u0165 a interpretova\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Preto si dovol\u00edm potencion\u00e1lnym z\u00e1ujemcom o t\u00e9mu „rodinnej hist\u00f3rie a kroniky<\/strong><\/em>“ navrhn\u00fa\u0165 – e\u0161te pred samotn\u00fdm rozhovorom pred kamerou – \u010fal\u0161iu a podrobnej\u0161iu komunik\u00e1ciu na t\u00fato t\u00e9mu vo forme (anonymn\u00e9ho?) poradensko-psychologick\u00e9ho rozhovoru, v ktorom <\/em><\/strong>sa pok\u00fasime spolo\u010dne pos\u00fadi\u0165 aj mieru dopadu a vlivu tak\u00fdchto „tie\u0148ov“ na V\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot a „fungovanie v \u0148om“. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

K tak\u00e9mu \u00fa\u010delu doporu\u010dujem vyu\u017ei\u0165 najprv moju e-mailov\u00fa adresu info@koreneakotvy.eu<\/em><\/strong> alebo pr\u00edp. m\u00f4j telefonick\u00fd kontakt: +421 949292782<\/em><\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u010eakujem a zost\u00e1vam s pozdravom, PhDr. Pavel Be\u0148o, psychol\u00f3g<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ako sa hovor\u00ed: „V ka\u017edej rodine je nie\u010do!“ (Rozumej nejak\u00e1 nemil\u00e1 udalos\u0165, spor, z\u00e1va\u017en\u00e1 choroba – skr\u00e1tka nejak\u00fd probl\u00e9m…) O tom niet poch\u00fdb. A to by mohla by\u0165 aj jedna z pr\u00ed\u010din, pre\u010do sa \u013eudia t\u00e9me „moje korene“ nechc\u00fa venova\u0165 vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ej miere aj pred o\u010dami in\u00fdch \u013eud\u00ed, to zn. verejne. Hlavne v mladom veku… … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":86,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-80","page","type-page","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/80","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=80"}],"version-history":[{"count":16,"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/80\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":104,"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/80\/revisions\/104"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/86"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.koreneakotvy.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=80"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}